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Wonderstate Sexual Wellness Full Body Massager Wand Com Wand by Dame
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Com Wand by Dame

Powerful, deep, and oh-so-satisfying—meet Com, your go-to wand for next-level pleasure.

€119,00

30 days happiness promise*

Free delivery on orders over €80

Order by 20:00, sent today

100% discreet packaging & shipping


Product Highlights

  • Powerful Vibes
  • Waterproof
  • No Cable
  • Body Safe Materials
  • Female-Led
Description

If you’re looking for a wand that delivers those deep, rumbly vibes we all crave, trust me—the Com Wand Vibrator by Dame is exactly what you need. It’s Dame’s fresh take on the classic wand shape, but with all the modern features that make it a total game-changer.

Here’s why you’ll love it: Com is designed to give you powerful, feel-good vibrations that hit all the right spots. Whether you’re using it for clitoral stimulation or full-body pleasure, this wand is here to make sure you feel every sensation in just the way you want. The flexible head is perfect for precision, making it easy to target those sweet spots no matter the angle.

Plus, the 5 patterns and 5 intensities mean you can totally customize your experience—whether you’re in the mood for something soft and soothing or more intense and stimulating. And let’s talk about comfort: Com is made from soft, medical-grade silicone, so it feels amazing on your skin, and it’s body-safe, because you deserve only the best.

Did I mention it’s waterproof and rechargeable? That means you can bring it into the bath or shower for even more fun, and charging is a breeze with the USB cable.

Whether you’re enjoying solo play or looking to spice things up with a partner, the Com Wand fits effortlessly into your life, bringing powerful pleasure exactly when you need it.


How Does the Com Compare to Other Wands?

If you’re deciding between the Com Wand and other top picks from our webshop, here’s how it compares:

  • Com Wand vs. Fun Factory VIM Wand: The VIM Wand is known for its incredibly strong vibrations, perfect if you’re looking for that extra intensity. It’s slightly larger and heavier than the Com, making it ideal for those who want a more powerful, full-body massage experience. However, the Com stands out with its flexibility and customizable vibration settings, making it a great option if you prefer more control and precision in a lighter, easy-to-hold design.

  • Com Wand vs. Le Bisou from Puissante: Le Bisou is more compact and subtle, offering a discreet option that focuses on external stimulation, whereas the Com Wand offers both clitoral and full-body stimulation with its flexible, ergonomic design. If you're looking for something that’s easy to travel with and perfect for on-the-go pleasure, Le Bisou is great. But if you want something that delivers deeper, more rumbly vibes with more power and versatility, Com is the one to go for.

  • Com Wand vs. The Drop from Maude: The Drop is known for its minimalist design and gentle touch, perfect for those who prefer softer, more subtle stimulation. It’s smaller and very discreet, ideal for intimate moments where simplicity is key. Com, on the other hand, offers a wider range of intensity and pattern options, making it a better fit if you’re after more power and variety in your play.

How to use

Using the Com Wand is all about ease and enjoyment, and it's perfect for exploring in any way that feels good to you!

To get started, make sure it's fully charged, then simply apply your favorite water-based lubricant to the head of the wand or directly to your skin. Or withour on clothes

Turn it on and start with the lowest setting to get a feel for its deep, rumbly vibrations. You can move it gently over your clitoris for some intense stimulation, or, if you're feeling like pampering yourself, try gliding it over your shoulders or lower back to melt away tension.

You can switch up the vibration patterns and intensities as you go, finding what suits your mood.

Whether you’re using it solo or letting a partner take control, Com makes it easy to find your pleasure—press it firmly against your body for stronger sensations or use lighter strokes for a more teasing experience.

It’s also great in the bath or shower, so feel free to bring it along for some steamy, water-safe play.

Just relax, explore, and let the Com Wand work its magic!

Details & Specifications

  • Medical Grade Silicone
  • Waterproof
  • 5 Intensity Levels
  • 5 Pattern Modes
  • 26.67 cm L x 4.45 cm W x 8.89 cm D/ 10.5” L x 1.75” W x 3.5” D
  • Travel Lock
  • Run time: 1 hr at highest settings
  • Charge Time: 2.5hrs
  • 3 Year Warranty
  • Magnetic USB Rechargeable

Comes with a magnetic USB charging cable, storage bag, and user manual in multiple languages

About the brand

Since its founding in 2014 by sexologist Alex Fine, Dame has been on a mission to empower women and close the "pleasure gap"—the disparity in sexual satisfaction experienced by people with vulvas compared to their cis male counterparts. And let’s be honest, it’s about time! Created by women, for women, Dame is all about embracing your sexuality, understanding your needs, and designing innovative, body-safe tools that make your intimate moments even more enjoyable.

Dame has earned a reputation for creating unique, user-focused sex toys that are designed to elevate your sexual wellness. But what really makes Dame stand out is their commitment to their community. Through Dame Lab, their research initiative, they’ve gathered feedback from over 10,000 users to ensure their products truly meet the desires and needs of real people. This constant feedback loop means their products are always evolving, more thoughtful, and designed to bring pleasure in ways you didn’t even know you needed!

From their iconic products like the Eva—a hands-free vibrator designed to stay in place during intercourse—to the fan-favorite Pom, a soft, flexible vibrator that fits comfortably in your hand, Dame has been breaking new ground in the world of sexual wellness. Every product is thoughtfully engineered, offering something for everyone, whether you’re exploring solo or looking to spice things up with a partner.

30 days happiness promise

At Wonderstate, we believe that every woman deserves to find joy and satisfaction in their intimate life. We want to create a world where Sexual Wellness becomes the norm. That's why we've created the 30-Day Happiness Promise—a guarantee designed especially for Wonderstaters. Here’s how it works!

Purchase with Confidence
Choose any of our premium sex toys and make your purchase with the peace of mind that comes with our 30-Day Happiness Promise.

Try It Out
Once your product arrives, take up to 30 days to explore and enjoy your new purchase. We encourage you to fully experience its features and benefits.

Feel the Difference
Our products are designed to enhance your pleasure and satisfaction. However, even well curated, we understand that not every product will be the perfect fit for everyone.

Not Completely Happy?
If you are not entirely satisfied with your purchase, simply contact us via info@inwonderstate.com within 30 days of receiving your product. We'll provide you with a hassle-free return process.

Easy Returns
Send the product back to us, and once we receive it, we'll issue a full refund in the form of a voucher—no questions asked. Your happiness and satisfaction are our top priorities.

Our 30-Day Happiness Promise ensures that you can explore new levels of pleasure without any risk. We are committed to helping you find the perfect product that brings joy and satisfaction into your life. ‘Cause, damn! It’ good to be alive!

Shop with confidence and discover the difference today!

Delivery & Returns

Delivery

  • Free delivery on orders over €80 in The Netherlands
  • Order by 20:00 and we will send your order today
  • 100% discrete packaging & shipping. We package all orders in a non-branded POSTNL box And we use a third-party name and address on the shipping label. No one else needs to know (unless you want them to ;-))
  • Choose your own delivery date
  • No delivery at your neighbours
  • Possible to chose a pick-up point
  • Delivery by PostNL or DPD

Returns

Not entirely happy with your order?  And you wish to return them? No problem!

Check whether the return shipment meets our return conditions

Make sure that the item is - as far as reasonably possible - in its original condition or factory packaging (with undamaged seal, if applicable);

Register the return shipment via the return portal

Prepare the return shipment

Put the items back in the original shipping box or pack them safely for shipping in another way;

Return the shipment with PostNL

We will inform you about the processing of your return shipment within 14 days after receipt of your return shipment.

We will refund the purchase amount after processing the return shipment via the payment method you used. Did you use Klarna as a payment method? If you have not yet paid the invoice, you do not need to do anything at this time. When we receive the item in good condition, your invoice will be adjusted or the payment obligation will expire. Do you have any further questions about your invoice? Then we would like to refer you to Klarna's customer service.

Have you returned a defective item and indicated that you want to receive a new item? Then you will receive an e-mail with the Track & Trace from PostNL when we have sent the replacement.

Customer service

Have a question about choosing the right product? That's what we're here for!
Contact us via

info@inwonderstate.com 

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Com Wand by Dame

€119,00

What our customers are loving

I had no idea how much my perspective on pleasure could change until I found you via my BF. The bundle selection is amazing. I felt like every toy was handpicked just for me! I used to be hesitant about pleasure toys, but now they’re a part of my self-care routine. It's been such an empowering shift in how I see myself! Thank you

Esmee, 37, The Hague

The toys are thoughtfully curated and so beautiful, I had no idea! It made me realize how much fun exploring my pleasure could be. I’m seriously obsessed!

Carolien, 46, Loosdrecht

What a game-changer! I’d always been curious about pleasure products but never found anything that felt ‘right.’ It was easy to find exactly what I needed without feeling overwhelmed. And honestly, I never expected a little toy could make such a big difference in my vibe and confidence!

Sophie, 36, Assen

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