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Intimate wellness, thoughtfully curated - for women who know their worth.

Your happiness is our mission
We're Wendelien & Sanneke, founders of inWONDERSTATE & big believers in the power of feeling good.
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We believe your body deserves more: more care, more pleasure, more attention, more love.
Every product we offer is body-safe, empowering by design, and made to look as good as she feels.
- Pleasure Toys
- Sexual Wellness
What our community is loving
“I had no idea how much my perspective on pleasure could change until I found you via my BF. The bundle selection is amazing. I felt like every toy was handpicked just for me! I used to be hesitant about pleasure toys, but now they’re a part of my self-care routine. It's been such an empowering shift in how I see myself! Thank you
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“The toys are thoughtfully curated and so beautiful, I had no idea! It made me realize how much fun exploring my pleasure could be. I’m seriously obsessed!
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“What a game-changer! I’d always been curious about pleasure products but never found anything that felt ‘right.’ It was easy to find exactly what I needed without feeling overwhelmed. And honestly, I never expected a little toy could make such a big difference in my vibe and confidence!
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Discover Your Magic
Find the pleasure toy that matches your vibe. From classics to beautifully designed rabbits. A curated & tested collection we're proud of!
Raise Your Vibrations
Whether you are into clitoral vibrations, pulsations or have absolutely no clue, we are here to help you find the right pleasure toys to elevate your energy.

Mood Boosting
These Intimate Wellness Essentials are great wingmen on the mission to fill your world with joy.

Joy Bundles
In the mood to try something new? We know that feeling. These bundles are a great place to start!
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