We're looking for sex-positive educators, bloggers, relationship coaches, wellness advocates, body-positive content creators, podcasters, and anyone passionate about helping women thrive. You should be comfortable promoting sexual wellness products in a tasteful, educational manner.

How do I apply to become an affiliate?

Click the "Apply Now" button on our partner page and fill out the application form. We review every application personally and typically respond within 48 hours.

Who can become an affiliate?

We're looking for sex-positive educators, bloggers, relationship coaches, wellness advocates, body-positive content creators, podcasters, and anyone passionate about helping women thrive. You should be comfortable promoting sexual wellness products in a tasteful, educational manner.

Is there a cost to join the program?

No! It's completely free to join our affiliate program.

What if I'm approved?

YEAH! Once approved, you'll receive an email with access to your affiliate dashboard where you can get your unique tracking link and download marketing materials.

How much commission do I earn?

You earn 20% on every completed sale that comes through your affiliate link.

What is the cookie duration?

Our tracking cookie lasts for 60 days. This means if someone clicks your link and purchases within 60 days, you still get credited with the sale.

What's the minimum payout amount?

You need to earn at least €100 before you can withdraw your commissions.

When do I get paid?

Payments are processed monthly, net 30 days after the end of each month. For example, sales made in January are paid out by the end of February.

How do I receive payment?

Payments are processed through Tapfiliate's payment system. You can set your preferred payment method in your affiliate dashboard (PayPal, bank transfer, etc.).

What happens if a customer returns a product?

If a customer returns a product or requests a refund, the commission for that sale will be reversed and deducted from your future earnings. This is standard practice for all affiliate programs.

Do I earn commission on shipping costs?

Commission is calculated on the product subtotal only, excluding shipping and taxes..

How do I track my sales?

Log into your Tapfiliate dashboard to see real-time stats including clicks, conversions, and earnings.

Can I see what products my referrals purchased?

For privacy reasons, you'll only see the order value and product category (not specific product names). We take customer privacy very seriously, especially with intimate products.

What if someone uses my link but doesn't purchase right away?

No problem! Our 60-day cookie window means they have plenty of time to make their decision, and you'll still get credit as long as they purchase within those 60 days.

Can I use multiple tracking links?

You'll have one main affiliate link, but you can create custom tracking parameters to track different campaigns if needed. Contact us for guidance on this.

How discreet is the shipping?

Completely discreet! All packages are shipped with:

• No branding on the outside
• Neutral sender name
• Plain packaging
• Privacy guaranteed

You can confidently tell your audience their privacy is fully protected.

Will my referrals know I sent them?

No. Customer information is private. They'll simply see that they came from an affiliate link, not specifically from you.

What platforms can I use to promote?

Best platforms:

• Personal blog or website
• Email newsletters (to opted-in subscribers)
• YouTube (with age-restriction)
• Pinterest (with wellness framing)
• Instagram (following their guidelines)
• Private Facebook groups (18+)
• Podcasts

Not recommended:

• TikTok (very restrictive about adult products)
• Public Facebook pages (restricted)

Do I need to disclose I'm an affiliate?

Yes! This is legally required. Always clearly disclose your affiliate relationship using language like "This post contains affiliate links" or hashtags like #affiliate or #ad.

Can I use your brand name in paid advertising?

No, you cannot bid on our brand name or trademarked terms in Google Ads, Facebook Ads, or any other paid search campaigns.

Can I create my own discount codes?

No, please don't create unauthorized discount codes. We'll provide you with exclusive codes to share with your audience. If you'd like a custom code, reach out to us!

What kind of content should I create?

Focus on:

• Educational content about sexual wellness and pleasure
• Empowerment messaging about body positivity
• Self-care and wellness angles
• Personal stories (appropriate ones!)
• Product benefits without explicit details

Avoid:

• Explicit imagery or language
• Medical or therapeutic claims
• Anything that violates platform guidelines

Do you provide marketing materials?

Yes! Once approved, you'll have access to:

• Platform-compliant social media graphics
• Blog post templates and ideas
• Email newsletter templates
• Sample captions and talking points
• Platform-specific content guidelines
• Product photos (tasteful)

Do I need to handle customer questions?

Please don't. Direct all customer inquiries, complaints, or support requests to info@inwonderstate.com. Wendelien & Sanneke personally handle all customer communication.

What about shipping questions?

Refer customers to info@inwonderstate.com. We handle all shipping, tracking, and delivery inquiries.

Can I process returns or exchanges?

No, please direct all returns, exchanges, and refund requests to info@inwonderstate.com.

What if someone asks me about product details I don't know?

Always direct specific product questions to info@inwonderstate.com. We'd rather give accurate information than have you guess!

Can I participate in other affiliate programs?

Yes! You can promote other brands, but please don't promote direct competitors alongside inWonderstate in the same content.

What happens if I violate the terms?

Depending on the violation, we may issue a warning or terminate your affiliate account. Serious violations (fraud, spam, explicit content) result in immediate termination and forfeiture of unpaid commissions.

Can you change the commission rate?

We reserve the right to adjust commission rates with 30 days' advance notice, though we have no plans to do so.

What if inWonderstate closes or changes?

In the unlikely event of major changes, we'll notify all affiliates with as much advance notice as possible. Earned commissions will be honored.

Technical Issues

My tracking link isn't working. What should I do?

First, make sure you're using the correct link from your dashboard. If it's still not working, contact us at info@inwonderstate.com with details about the issue.

I think I'm missing commissions. How do I check?

Log into your dashboard to see all tracked clicks and conversions. If something seems off, reach out to us with specific dates and we'll investigate.

Can I use link shorteners?

Yes, you can use link shorteners like bit.ly, but make sure the final destination is your unique affiliate link.

I have a question not answered here. Who do I contact?

Email us at info@inwonderstate.com! Wendelien & Sanneke personally read and respond to every message, usually within 48 hours (often much faster).

Can I get content approval before posting?

Absolutely! If you're unsure whether your content is appropriate or compliant, send it to us for review before posting. We're happy to help!

Do you offer one-on-one support?

Yes! We're here to help you succeed. Reach out anytime with questions about content strategy, platform guidelines, or anything else.

Can I suggest improvements to the program?

We love feedback! Share your ideas at info@inwonderstate.com. Your success is our success, and we're always looking to improve.

What works best for promoting intimate products?

• Lead with education - teach about sexual wellness
• Focus on empowerment - celebrate body positivity
• Build trust first - don't lead with the sale
• Use storytelling - personal (appropriate) stories resonate
• Be patient - intimate products have longer consideration periods
• Email works great - it's private and goes to engaged subscribers

How can I increase my earnings?

• Create high-quality, valuable content consistently
• Build trust with your audience
• Use multiple content types (blog, social, email)
• Engage with your community
• Leverage seasonal opportunities (Valentine's Day, New Year's, etc.)
• Focus on the "why" (empowerment, wellness) not just the "what" (products)

What's the best time to promote?

Great times include:

• Valentine's Day season (January-February)
• New Year's resolutions (January)
• Summer self-care season (June-August)
• Holiday gift-giving (November-December)
• But honestly, self-care and wellness are year-round!