Vulva Balm Soothing Moisturizer - Daily Hydration with Shea Butter & Botanical Oils (30ml)
Intimate Care / Daily Hygiene Collection
Rich, nourishing vulva balm with shea butter, aloe vera, centella asiatica, and botanical oils. Soothes dryness, irritation, and sensitivity while strengthening skin barrier. Perfect for hormonal transitions, daily comfort, and post-hair removal care. Fragrance-free, vegan.
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Product Highlights
- daily vulvar moisturizing
- Barrier repair
- Friction protection
Description
Let's talk about vulvar dryness (because nobody else will)
You know that tight, uncomfortable feeling? The irritation from your underwear? The friction when you walk? The way intimacy has started to feel... less than comfortable?
That's vulvar dryness. And it's not something you should just "deal with."
Your vulva has thin, delicate skin with fewer oil glands than other body parts. It experiences constant friction from clothing, daily activities, and intimate contact. It's affected by hormonal fluctuations throughout your cycle, during pregnancy, postpartum, and especially during perimenopause and menopause.
Yet somehow, vulvar moisturizing isn't part of anyone's daily routine.
We moisturize our faces religiously. We have 12-step skincare routines. We panic if our hands get dry. But our vulvas – arguably more delicate and more exposed to irritation – get ignored until there's a problem.
It's time to change that.
Why vulvar dryness is a bigger deal than you think
It's not just discomfort. It's a cascade of problems:
Compromised skin barrier:
When vulvar skin is dry, its protective barrier weakens. This barrier keeps moisture in and irritants out. Without it, you're vulnerable.
Micro-tears:
Dry skin cracks easily. Micro-tears create entry points for bacteria and yeast, increasing infection risk.
Increased friction:
Without adequate moisture, every movement causes friction. Walking, sitting, exercise, sex – all become uncomfortable.
Chronic inflammation:
Dry skin triggers inflammatory responses. This creates a cycle: dryness → irritation → inflammation → more dryness.
Impact on intimacy:
Dry vulvar tissue makes arousal uncomfortable and penetration painful. Even touching yourself becomes an issue.
Psychological impact:
Constant discomfort affects your confidence, body image, and quality of life.
And during menopause? All of this intensifies dramatically.
The menopause dryness crisis nobody prepared you for
Estrogen isn't just about reproduction. It's essential for:
- Vulvar tissue thickness and elasticity
- Natural lubrication production
- Collagen and elastin synthesis
- Skin barrier function
- Blood flow to intimate areas
When estrogen declines during perimenopause and menopause:
- Vulvar tissue thins (vulvovaginal atrophy)
- Natural lubrication decreases dramatically
- Skin loses elasticity and resilience
- Dryness becomes chronic, not occasional
- The entire vulvar ecosystem changes
This isn't aging gracefully. This is a hormonal skin crisis that needs specific care.
What Vulva Balm Soothing Moisturizer actually does
This is a daily moisturizer formulated specifically for vulvar skin – not a generic intimate product, not a temporary fix, but actual skincare for your most delicate area.
Aloe Vera
The cooling, healing powerhouse. Provides immediate relief from irritation while delivering deep hydration. Anti-inflammatory properties calm angry, sensitive skin.
Centella Asiatica (Gotu Kola)
Promotes collagen synthesis and skin healing. Strengthens thin vulvar tissue and improves elasticity. Particularly valuable during hormonal transitions when collagen production declines.
Chamomile Extract
Gentle anti-inflammatory that soothes without causing additional sensitivity. Calms redness, reduces itching, and supports overall skin comfort.
Shea Butter
Rich, protective emollient that creates a moisture barrier. High in fatty acids and vitamins A and E. Deeply nourishing without being heavy or greasy.
Jojoba Oil
Mimics your skin's natural sebum, making it easily absorbed and non-comedogenic. Provides lightweight moisture that doesn't clog pores or feel oily.
Olive Oil
Mediterranean staple packed with antioxidants and healthy fats. Nourishes deeply, supports skin barrier repair, and provides anti-inflammatory benefits.
Avocado Oil
Vitamin-rich oil that penetrates deeply. High in oleic acid for moisture retention. Promotes skin elasticity and resilience.
Natural Waxes
Create a protective barrier that locks in moisture while allowing skin to breathe. Not occlusive like petroleum-based products.
What this balm does for your vulvar skin
Immediate relief:
Soothes irritation, reduces redness, provides cooling comfort within minutes of application.
Deep hydration:
Botanical oils penetrate to deliver moisture where it's needed, not just surface-level coverage.
Barrier repair:
Shea butter and natural waxes create a protective layer that helps your skin barrier heal and strengthen.
Long-term resilience:
With consistent use, vulvar skin becomes more supple, elastic, and resistant to dryness and irritation.
Friction protection:
Creates a smooth surface that reduces discomfort from clothing, movement, and intimacy.
Inflammation reduction:
Chamomile and aloe calm chronic low-grade inflammation that makes everything feel sensitive.
Who needs daily vulvar moisturizing
Everyone. But urgently if you're:
✓ In perimenopause or menopause (estrogen decline causes severe dryness)
✓ On birth control or hormone therapy (can affect natural lubrication)
✓ Taking antihistamines, antidepressants, or other drying medications
✓ Postpartum or breastfeeding (hormonal shifts cause temporary dryness)
✓ Shaving or waxing intimate areas (needs moisture for healing and prevention)
✓ Exercising regularly (friction and sweat affect vulvar skin)
✓ Experiencing chronic vulvar irritation or sensitivity
✓ Noticing your vulvar skin has changed texture or appearance
✓ Finding intimacy increasingly uncomfortable due to dryness
What makes this balm safe and effective
Fragrance-free:
No synthetic fragrances that commonly irritate vulvar tissue. Only natural botanical scents.
Colorant-free:
No dyes or artificial colors. Pure, clean formulation.
Vegan:
Plant-based ingredients only. No animal-derived components.
Rich but non-greasy:
Balm texture provides protection without feeling heavy or leaving residue on clothing.
pH-appropriate:
Won't disrupt your intimate pH balance like some lotions can.
External use optimized:
Designed specifically for vulvar skin – labia, outer areas, not internal vaginal use.
How to incorporate it into your routine
Daily morning application:
After showering, pat dry and apply a small amount to vulvar area. Creates a protective barrier for the day.
Before bed:
Nighttime application allows extended absorption and healing while you sleep.
Post-shaving/waxing:
Apply immediately after hair removal to soothe and prevent irritation, ingrowns, and bumps.
During menstruation:
Can help with irritation from pad or tampon use. Apply as needed for comfort.
Before exercise:
Pre-application reduces friction during workouts, cycling, running, etc.
Anytime discomfort:
Use whenever you notice dryness, irritation, or sensitivity. Safe for multiple daily applications.
What to expect
Immediate (first application):
Soothing relief. Skin feels nourished, comfortable, protected. No greasy residue.
First week:
Noticeable reduction in dryness and friction discomfort. Irritation calms down.
2-4 weeks:
Skin barrier strengthens. Vulvar tissue feels more supple and resilient. Chronic irritation improves significantly.
Long-term:
Healthy, moisturized vulvar skin becomes your baseline. Problems that seemed inevitable become rare.
The difference between this and other products
vs. Regular body lotion:
Not formulated for intimate pH or sensitive mucous membranes. Often contains irritants.
vs. Arousal oils:
Those are for intimacy enhancement. This is daily skincare for comfort and barrier health.
vs. Vaginal moisturizers:
Those are internal. This is for external vulvar skin care.
vs. Diaper rash cream:
Too heavy, often contains zinc oxide. This absorbs beautifully and is formulated for adult skin.
This is specifically formulated vulvar skincare. Nothing else compares.
Your vulva deserves a skincare routine
You wouldn't skip moisturizing your face because "it's just skin." Your vulva is skin too – delicate, sensitive skin that needs consistent care.
Daily vulvar moisturizing should be as normal as brushing your teeth.
Stop accepting dryness and discomfort as inevitable. Your body isn't betraying you – it just needs the right support.
Contents: 30ml / 1 fl. oz. (2-3 months daily use)
Format: Rich balm in jar
Use: External vulvar application
Fragrance-free. Vegan. Made for your comfort.
Emma, 29 | Shaving Relief "I shave my bikini area and always dealt with irritation, redness, and those awful ingrown hairs. Started applying this balm immediately after shaving and then daily for a few days after. The chamomile and aloe soothe instantly, and I swear the botanical oils prevent ingrowns. My skin has never looked this good after hair removal."
How to use
How To Use?
Understanding Vulvar Moisturizing
Your vulva needs daily moisture just like your face.
Vulvar skin is:
- Thinner than facial skin
- Has fewer oil glands
- Experiences more friction
- Is affected by hormonal fluctuations
- Requires specific pH-appropriate products
Daily moisturizing prevents problems before they start.
Daily Application Guide
Best times to apply:
Morning routine (recommended):
- After showering and patting dry
- Apply before getting dressed
- Creates protective barrier for the day
- Reduces friction from clothing and movement
Evening routine (also recommended):
- Before bed, after cleansing
- Allows extended absorption overnight
- Maximum healing while you sleep
- Wake up with comfortable, nourished skin
Twice daily application:
Ideal for severe dryness, menopause, or when building skin barrier strength.
Step-by-Step Application
Step 1: Start with clean, dry skin
After showering or cleansing with pH-balanced intimate wash, pat vulvar area completely dry.
Step 2: Warm the balm
Scoop a small amount (pea to dime-sized) onto your fingertips. Rub between fingers to warm and soften.
Step 3: Apply to external vulvar area
Apply to:
- Outer labia (labia majora)
- Inner labia (labia minora)
- Around clitoral hood (external only)
- Any areas experiencing dryness or irritation
Use gentle, downward motions. No need to rub vigorously – the balm absorbs naturally.
Step 4: Allow absorption
Give it 2-3 minutes to absorb before getting dressed. It won't leave greasy residue, but absorption ensures maximum benefit.
Step 5: Reapply as needed
Safe for multiple daily applications. Listen to your body.
Special Use Cases
For menopause/perimenopause:
Apply twice daily consistently. This isn't optional skincare – it's essential barrier support during hormonal decline. Use every single day, not just when you notice dryness.
Post-shaving or waxing:
Apply immediately after hair removal while skin is still slightly damp. Reapply before bed. Continue daily use for 2-3 days after to prevent irritation and ingrown hairs.
Before exercise:
Apply 10-15 minutes before workouts, cycling, running, or any activity causing friction. Creates protective barrier that prevents chafing.
During your period:
Can help with irritation from pads or menstrual cups. Apply morning and night, or as needed for comfort.
Before intimacy:
While this isn't a lubricant, applying it earlier in the day supports skin comfort. For actual lubrication during sex, use appropriate intimate lubricants.
Postpartum:
Safe to use once initial healing has occurred (usually 2-4 weeks postpartum). Check with your healthcare provider. The botanical ingredients support tissue recovery.
On medications causing dryness:
If taking antihistamines, antidepressants, or other drying medications, apply twice daily to combat side effects.
How Much to Use
Standard application:
Pea-sized amount for entire vulvar area
Severe dryness:
Dime-sized amount, can apply more generously
Spot treatment:
Rice grain-sized amount for specific irritated areas
Post-hair removal:
Small pearl-sized amount for soothing coverage
You can't really "use too much" – excess will just absorb or can be gently blotted with tissue.
Frequency Guidelines
Minimum: Once daily
Optimal: Twice daily (morning and night)
Maximum: As needed throughout the day (safe for multiple applications)
Consistency matters more than amount. Daily use builds skin barrier strength over time.
What to Expect
First application:
Immediate soothing. Skin feels nourished, protected, comfortable. No greasy feeling after absorption.
First 3 days:
Noticeable reduction in tightness and friction discomfort. Skin feels softer.
First week:
Irritation calms significantly. Dryness improves. Daily comfort increases.
2-4 weeks:
Skin barrier strengthens. Vulvar tissue becomes more resilient and supple. Chronic issues improve.
Long-term (2+ months):
Healthy vulvar skin becomes your baseline. Prevention mode instead of damage control.
Tips for Best Results
🌸 Consistency is key – Daily use prevents problems, not just fixes them
🌸 Don't wait for severe dryness – Start moisturizing before it's a crisis
🌸 Pair with proper cleansing – Use pH-balanced intimate wash, never regular soap
🌸 Wear breathable underwear – Cotton allows airflow while balm works
🌸 Stay hydrated – Internal hydration supports external skin health
🌸 Consider diet – Omega-3s and healthy fats support skin barrier function
Combining with Other Products
Can use WITH:
✓ pH-balanced intimate wash (cleanse first, then moisturize)
✓ Intimate lubricants during sex (apply balm hours before, use lube during)
✓ Other external intimate care products
✓ Menstrual products
Don't combine with:
✗ Regular soap (defeats the purpose)
✗ Scented products (potential irritants)
✗ Products with harsh chemicals
Application order:
Cleanse → Pat dry → Apply balm → Allow absorption → Get dressed
Storage & Shelf Life
Storage:
Room temperature, away from direct sunlight and heat. Bathroom storage is fine (balm texture is stable).
Shelf life:
12 months after opening
Travel:
Jar format with tight seal. TSA-compliant size. Won't leak or melt under normal conditions.
Important Notes
✓ External use only – For vulvar skin, not internal vaginal application
✓ Safe for daily use – No limits on frequency
✓ Not a lubricant – This is moisturizer for daily comfort, not for sex
✓ Patch test if sensitive – Apply small amount to inner arm first if you have reactive skin
✓ Safe during pregnancy – Natural botanicals, but always consult your healthcare provider
✓ Discontinue if irritation – Rare with these gentle ingredients, but possible
When to See a Healthcare Provider
This balm supports vulvar skin health but doesn't treat medical conditions.
See your doctor if you experience:
- Severe, persistent itching or burning
- Unusual discharge or odor
- Visible lesions, sores, or changes in skin appearance
- Pain that doesn't improve with moisturizing
- Symptoms of infection
- Sudden onset of severe dryness (could indicate medical issue)
Vulvar dryness is normal during hormonal changes. Severe or sudden dryness with other symptoms needs medical evaluation.
Details & Specifications
Variant Title
30ml / 1 fl. oz. (Rich Balm)
Key Benefits
- Rich balm with shea butter, jojoba, olive & avocado oils
- Aloe vera, centella asiatica & chamomile soothe irritation
- Relieves dryness from hormonal changes, menopause, medications
- Strengthens vulvar skin barrier for long-term resilience
- Reduces friction discomfort from daily activities & exercise
- Perfect for post-shaving/waxing comfort
- Fragrance-free, colorant-free, vegan formula
- Safe for daily use on external vulvar skin
Ingredients
butyrospermum parkii (shea) butter, simmondsia chinensis (jojoba) seed oil, olea europaea (olive) fruit oil, persea gratissima (avocado) oil, cera alba (beeswax alternative/plant wax), aloe barbadensis leaf extract, centella asiatica extract, chamomilla recutita (chamomile) flower extract, tocopherol (vitamin e), glycerin, aqua.
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