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Kom als jezelf van Emily Nagoski

Book

A must read: empower yourself, understand your body, embrace your desires, and unlock a deeper, more confident connection to your pleasure.

€22,99

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Description

DUTCH!

The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life.

The book that will completely change the way you see your body, your desires, and your pleasure. Grounded in science but written like a heart-to-heart conversation, it’s the ultimate guide for every woman who wants to understand how her mind and body work together to create the perfect conditions for intimacy and connection.

Nagoski’s insights are eye-opening, breaking down the myths and misconceptions that have kept women from truly enjoying their sexuality. She reveals how our brains, bodies, and emotions are all linked in the experience of desire, offering practical tools to unlock a whole new level of self-awareness and pleasure. It's not about being "fixed"—it's about embracing who you already are.

This isn’t just a book; it’s a roadmap to empowerment. If you’re ready to tap into your authentic pleasure and let go of the barriers that hold you back, Come As You Are is a must-read. Because every woman deserves to feel confident, connected, and fully in charge of her sexual wellness. Don't miss the chance to own this game-changing book!

Details & Specifications

  • English
  • Paperback 
  • 400 pages

About the brand

We proudly offer only the works of Emily Nagoski because her approach to sexual wellness aligns perfectly with our mission to empower women. As a renowned author, educator, and researcher, Emily’s insights into sexual pleasure, desire, and well-being are groundbreaking and refreshingly authentic. Her bestselling books, like Come As You Are, break down the science of sexuality in a way that’s both accessible and deeply empowering, encouraging women to embrace their bodies, desires, and the full spectrum of their pleasure.

We chose Emily Nagoski because she doesn’t just write about sex—she advocates for self-love, understanding, and breaking the myths that have long overshadowed female pleasure. Her work offers practical, compassionate advice, grounded in research, and resonates with women seeking to rediscover and celebrate their sexual wellness. In a world where shame too often surrounds intimacy, Emily gives us permission to feel good—without guilt. And that’s a message we stand by.

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Delivery

  • Free delivery on orders over €80 in The Netherlands
  • Order by 20:00 and we will send your order today
  • 100% discrete packaging & shipping. We package all orders in a non-branded POSTNL box And we use a third-party name and address on the shipping label. No one else needs to know (unless you want them to ;-))
  • Choose your own delivery date
  • No delivery at your neighbours
  • Possible to chose a pick-up point
  • Delivery by PostNL or DPD

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We will refund the purchase amount after processing the return shipment via the payment method you used. Did you use Klarna as a payment method? If you have not yet paid the invoice, you do not need to do anything at this time. When we receive the item in good condition, your invoice will be adjusted or the payment obligation will expire. Do you have any further questions about your invoice? Then we would like to refer you to Klarna's customer service.

Have you returned a defective item and indicated that you want to receive a new item? Then you will receive an e-mail with the Track & Trace from PostNL when we have sent the replacement.

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Kom als jezelf van Emily Nagoski

€22,99

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