Condoms 101: The Ultimate Do’s & Don’ts for Safety and Pleasure

Condoms are an essential must-have for a safe and carefree sex life, yet they’re often misused. Did you know that improper storage or the wrong lubricant can cause condoms to break? It’s time to clear up the confusion with these simple do’s and don’ts. And because we only want the best, we’re highlighting My Lubie—a brand that takes condoms to the next level.

A Brief History of Condoms

While modern condoms are a 20th-century invention, their history stretches back thousands of years. Ancient Egyptians likely used linen sheaths to protect against infections. In 16th-century Europe, primitive condoms made of linen or animal intestines were used primarily to combat syphilis. The latex condom, as we know it today, wasn’t introduced until the 1920s.

Condoms: More Than Just Protection

Did you know condoms can offer more than just safety? Many variations are designed to enhance pleasure. Think of condoms with ribs, studs, or unique shapes for extra stimulation for both partners. For a touch of adventure, there are options with warming, cooling, or tingling lubricants. Condoms are no longer just a protective barrier—they’re also a way to elevate your sexual experience.

Note: inWONDERSTATE does not sell these variants.

Female Condoms: The Lesser-Known Alternative

While male condoms are often the default choice, there’s also a great option designed specifically for women: the female condom, or internal condom. This tubular sheath, equipped with flexible rings at both ends, is inserted into the vagina. It provides the same protection against STIs and unwanted pregnancies as male condoms but has one distinct advantage: it can be inserted in advance, minimizing interruptions during intimacy.

Condoms are not only a practical choice but can also contribute to a more enjoyable and relaxed experience in the bedroom. Whatever type you choose, there’s always an option to suit your needs. 💛

The Do’s: How to Use Condoms Like a Pro

Check the Expiry Date
Every condom has an expiration date, and yes, it matters. An expired condom can dry out or break. With My Lubie, you’re choosing fresh, high-quality products you can trust.
Choose the Right Size
A condom should fit properly—not too tight, not too loose. My Lubie offers various sizes for ultimate comfort and safety.
Use a Quality Lubricant
Opt for a water-based lubricant that’s condom-friendly, like My Lubie’s luxurious formulas. This prevents friction and keeps everything smooth, reducing the risk of breakage.
Put It On in Time
Make sure the condom is on before any contact. This ensures maximum protection against STIs and unwanted pregnancies.
Store Smartly
Keep condoms away from heat, direct sunlight, and sharp objects. A nightstand is safer than a wallet or pocket.

The Don’ts: Avoid These Pitfalls

Don’t Use Teeth or Scissors to Open the Package
Sharp objects or teeth can damage the condom. Always open the package carefully with your hands.
Never Use Two Condoms at Once
Two condoms layered on top of each other may seem safer, but they create friction, increasing the likelihood of tearing.
Don’t Reuse Condoms
This might sound obvious, but it happens. Condoms are designed for single use. Dispose of it after use and use a new one next time.
Avoid Oil-Based Products
Vaseline, massage oils, or coconut oil can weaken latex, causing the condom to break. Always use condom-safe lubricants, like those from My Lubie.
Don’t Expose Condoms to Extreme Temperatures
Condoms that are too hot or cold lose their integrity. Store them in a cool, dry place.

Why Choose My Lubie

My Lubie creates condoms that don’t just protect but also enhance your experience. Think ultra-thin latex for maximum sensitivity, a silky-smooth texture, and vegan formulas free from harmful chemicals. Their chic, discreet packaging adds a touch of elegance—perfect for modern, mindful lovers.

With these tips and My Lubie’s exceptional quality in your nightstand, you’re ready for safe, pleasurable, and worry-free moments. Go ahead and enjoy—you deserve it! 💛

Top FAQs About Condoms

How effective are condoms in preventing pregnancy and STIs?
When used correctly, condoms are highly effective at preventing both pregnancy and sexually transmitted infections (STIs). They create a physical barrier to stop sperm from entering the vagina and protect against pathogens.
What’s the correct way to put on a condom?
- Check the expiry date.
- Open the package carefully. Avoid sharp objects.
- Place it on the erect penis. Pinch the tip to remove air and roll it all the way down.
- After ejaculation: Hold the condom’s base while withdrawing to prevent slippage.
What lubricants are safe to use with condoms?
Water-based or silicone-based lubricants are safe. Avoid oil-based products like Vaseline, which can damage latex.
What should I do if a condom breaks during sex?
Stop immediately. Consider emergency contraception to prevent pregnancy and get tested for STIs. Consult a medical professional for further advice.
Can I reuse a condom?
No. Condoms are for single use only. Dispose of it after use and use a new one next time.
Are there condoms for people with latex allergies?
Yes. Latex-free condoms made of materials like polyurethane or polyisoprene are suitable for those with latex allergies.
How do I determine the right condom size?
Proper sizing ensures comfort and effectiveness. Check the nominal width (in millimeters) listed on the packaging to find your perfect fit.
Do condoms protect against all STIs?
Condoms offer excellent protection against many STIs transmitted via bodily fluids, such as HIV and gonorrhea. However, for STIs spread through skin-to-skin contact, like herpes or HPV, condoms offer less protection if the infected areas are uncovered.
What are common mistakes when using condoms?
- Not having a condom available when needed.
- Allowing genital contact before putting on the condom.
- Using the wrong size.
- Damaging the condom while opening it.
- Using the condom inside out.
- Failing to use appropriate lubricants.
- Using two condoms at once.
- Not removing the condom immediately after ejaculation.
Where can I buy condoms, and are there age restrictions?
Condoms are available at drugstores, supermarkets, pharmacies, and online. In many countries, including the Netherlands, there are no age restrictions for purchasing condoms—they’re accessible to everyone.