So, you’re thinking about getting your first vibrator? Yay! That’s such an exciting step toward exploring your body and boosting your sexual wellness. But with so many options out there, it can be a little overwhelming to know where to start, right? No worries—I’ve got you covered. Let’s break it down together!

What Kind of Stimulation Are You Looking For? The first question to ask yourself is: What kind of stimulation are you craving? For many women, external stimulation (especially on the clitoris) is where it’s at. If that’s the case for you, a clitoral vibrator might be the perfect place to start. They’re super popular and focus directly on external pleasure. Le Toupie is a gentle external stimulator with super soft silicone and gentle vibes. Something like the Womanizer is a fan favorite for beginners because it uses air pressure for gentle stimulation—no need to dive in too deep if you’re not ready.

If you’re feeling curious about internal stimulation, a G-spot vibrator could be just the thing. These are designed to target the G-spot inside the vagina and can provide a more intense, focused pleasure. They’re a little more advanced, but hey, if you’re up for an adventure, something like the Tiger by Fun Factory is a fun option because it stimulates both the clitoris and G-spot at the same time!

Best of Both Worlds? Why choose when you can have both? If you want to enjoy clitoral and G-spot stimulation together, look no further than a dual-stimulation vibrator (aka the famous Rabbit). This type of vibrator gives you double the pleasure by focusing on both internal and external stimulation at once. There’s a reason the Rabbit Vibrator is so popular—it’s a game-changer for many women! For starters we recommend Le Chouchou, for the ones who love to know more about their own pleasure/orgasms or pelvic, Lioness and the enhancers among us, the Miss Bi!

What Features Should You Consider? Now that you’ve got an idea of what type of vibrator you might want, let’s talk features. Do you want something that’s waterproof so you can use it in the bath or shower? How about multiple vibration speeds and patterns for variety? You can also find vibrators that come with remote controls, which are fun if you’re using them with a partner. If you’re just starting out, I recommend something simple with a few different settings so you can figure out what feels best for you. You can always upgrade later!

What Material Is Best? When choosing a vibrator, always go for a toy made from body-safe materials like medical-grade silicone. These materials are hypoallergenic, easy to clean, and won’t irritate sensitive skin. Plus, they feel great to the touch—soft, smooth, and flexible! Rest assured, all our toys are made of medical-garde siliconen.

Getting Started Most importantly, pick a vibrator that excites you! Whether it’s sleek and discreet or bold and playful, it’s all about finding what makes you feel comfortable and confident. You can take your time experimenting and discovering what brings you the most pleasure—there’s no rush!

And don’t worry—if you’re still unsure, this fun quiz will help guide you to the perfect toy for you. Ready to dive into the world of pleasure? Enjoy your journey and remember your pleasure, your choice!